
You have gone through the pain, hassle, and expense of getting your estate planning done. Now what? For most people, the answer is to put the plan in a safe deposit box or on a shelf, and forget about it. That may not be the best answer.
Who should I tell? A common concern is whether a person should disclose the particulars of their estate plan to family members. While this is a very personal decision, the following factors should be considered:
- An estate plan is not worth the paper it is written on if no one can locate it when it is needed. You should at least let people know where they can find a copy of your plan, or the phone number for your attorney who can provide them with that information.
- Powers of attorney only work if the agents are aware of their duties. If you name a family member as an agent under a power of attorney, it is probably best to give them a copy of that power of attorney, in case it is needed. This applies equally for medical and general durable powers of attorney.
- A living will can only be enforced if it is provided to your doctor. Consider giving your primary care physician a copy of your healthcare power of attorney, HIPAA release, and living will. Additionally, if you are scheduled to undergo a medical procedure, make sure to take a copy of these documents with you.
- Family disputes may arise after your death if your heirs are surprised by the contents of your estate planning documents. Consider having a general conversation with your heirs about the contents of your estate plan as a way to ensure peace after your passing. A good rule of thumb is to make sure that no one will be surprised - at least in a bad way - when you pass.
- If you provide a copy of any estate planning documents to your loved ones, and then subsequently change those estate planning documents, make sure that your loved ones get copies of the updated documents. Otherwise an outdated document could be relied upon - simply because there was no knowledge of any changes.
- Your primary estate planning document, whether it be a will or trust, can be kept confidential if you choose - no one can force you to turn over a copy of your plan.
- Life insurance policies may not be redeemed unless your loved ones know of their existence, and where to find the necessary paperwork to collect the death benefit.
For more information, consider the following article from the New York Times - (click here).



